In His Own Words: Nice Guy Meets Abusive Borderline Personality Disordered Woman, Part I

It is day 22 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s In His Own Words tells the tale of “Kyle,” ¬†nice guy from an abusive family who fell for and married an abusive woman who likely has Borderline Personality Disorder. When I first met my second wife, D, I thought she was perfect. She was everything [...]

In Her Own Words: My Husband’s Ex-Wife Abused Him with the Help of Family Court and His Parents

It’s day 7 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s submission is written by “Brenda,” a woman whose husband was abused by his ex-wife. Hi Dr. T, One of the saddest things I have seen in the past few years is the blindness and projection around male victims of domestic violence. My husband was divorced years [...]

In His Own Words: Scenes from an Abusive Marriage

It is day 5 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Verbal, a longtime member of the Shrink4MenForum, shares vignettes from his marriage to an emotionally and physically abusive monster — his wife. I have been married to my wife, whom I shall refer to here as The Crazy Lady (TCL), since 1995. She presents many of [...]