In Her Own Words: My Husband’s Ex-Wife Abused Him with the Help of Family Court and His Parents

It’s day 7 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s submission is written by “Brenda,” a woman whose husband was abused by his ex-wife. Hi Dr. T, One of the saddest things I have seen in the past few years is the blindness and projection around male victims of domestic violence. My husband was divorced years [...]

In His Own Words: Scenes from an Abusive Marriage

It is day 5 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Verbal, a longtime member of the Shrink4MenForum, shares vignettes from his marriage to an emotionally and physically abusive monster — his wife. I have been married to my wife, whom I shall refer to here as The Crazy Lady (TCL), since 1995. She presents many of [...]

In Her Own Words: My Mother Abused My Father and Me

It is Day 4 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. “Marian” shares her story of horrific abuse at the hands of her mother. Marian wasn’t her mother’s only victim. Her mother also brutalized her father. If I could draw my mother on a paper, would I split her into two people. One would be happy, joyful, [...]