In Her Own Words: My Husband’s Ex-Wife Abused Him with the Help of Family Court and His Parents

It’s day 7 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s submission is written by “Brenda,” a woman whose husband was abused by his ex-wife. Hi Dr. T, One of the saddest things I have seen in the past few years is the blindness and projection around male victims of domestic violence. My husband was divorced years [...]

In His Own Words: Men Can’t Be Abused, Can They?

It is day 2 of Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Today’s In His Own Words is an emancipation proclamation of sorts. “JC’s” experiences are an illustration of how some men can be blind to the often egregious abuse they suffer. If a man had chucked a coffee mug at a woman’s head, there would be no doubt such behavior is abusive. Because [...]

Going Mental: What Part of Borderlines Can Be Dangerous Do You Not Understand?

Believe it or not, we actually get messages from men seeking support from and that run something along the lines of, “Hey, she slashed my tires, had sex with my nephew and cleaned out my bank account. Should I consider getting out of this relationship?” In fact, many of the men seeking assistance [...]