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A View from the Outside: How Healthy Loved Ones See your Abusive Relationship with a High-Conflict and/or Personality Disordered Partner

Written by Micksbabe on February 13, 2012 - 45 Comments
Categories: Abuse, Dating, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, High-Conflict, Marriage, Parental Alienation, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Relationship Advice, Relationships

Here’s the latest from CrazyBuster, Micksbabe . . . If you’re in an abusive relationship with a high-conflict and/or personality disordered individual, you’re probably very aware of what your situation looks like from the inside — constant chaos, blame, fighting, projection, and gaslighting, possibly even shame. Have you ever wondered what your situation looks like [...]

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Relationship Stages, Abusive Women and the WTF Moment, Part Two

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on February 9, 2012 - 45 Comments
Categories: Abuse, Accountability, Blame, Dating, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Healthy Relationships, High-Conflict, Marriage, Personality Disorders, Physical Abuse, Psychological Abuse, Relationships, Unhealthy Relationships

Relationships Stages, Abusive Women and the WTF Moment, Part, One, explored the early stages of an abusive relationship and the WTF moment. To clarify, the WTF moment is when the non-abusive partner first realizes there is something wrong with the abusive partner. As noted in Part One, the second relationship stage, the power struggle phase, [...]

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Shrink4Men Radio Embed: Grieving the Loss of an Abusive Partner with Author Tom Golden

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on January 16, 2012 - 35 Comments
Categories: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Dating, Divorce, Healing, Healthy Relationships, Journaling, Marriage, Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Personality Disorders, Professional Victims, Psychological Abuse, Rage, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Shrink4Men Radio, Unhealthy Relationships

Thank you very much to Tom Golden, LCSW of www.webhealing.com and author of Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing. He’s a great guest and I hope he will come back for another visit. Thank you to the callers. I admire your courage to call in and share such heartbreaking [...]

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Shrink4Men Radio Monday, January 16, 2012 at 9pm EST: Grieving the Loss of an Abusive Partner with Author Tom Golden

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on January 16, 2012 - 1 Comment
Categories: Abuse, Divorce, Healing, Personality Disorders, Psychological Abuse, Shrink4Men Radio

Shrink4Men Radio is back tonight, Monday, January 16, 2012 at 9pm EST with my guest, author and MSW, Tom Golden, an expert in male grief and mourning. Tom’s book, Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing is an excellent resource for men who are mourning a loss and for women [...]

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Rethinking Female Sociopathy, Part Two

In Rethinking Female Sociopathy, Part One, I went through a comprehensive list of sociopathic traits based on psychologists Hervey Cleckley‘s and Robert Hare’s psychopathy checklists. For every single item mentioned, I can think of a real life example that every one of my clients has suffered. Are these men’s wives, girlfriends and exes sociopaths? Maybe, [...]

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