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Oops! A BPD Did It Again! Another Post-Break Up Pregnancy to Trap a Man

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on July 31, 2012 - 80 Comments
Categories: Abuse, Borderline Personality Disorder, Custody, Dating, Legal, Marriage, Parenting, Personality Disorders, Psychological Abuse, Relationship Advice, Relationships, reproductive coercion, Sexual Abuse, Unhealthy Relationships

Calling all Shrink4Men community members! There is a young man in need of an intervention. Earlier this morning, a 24-year old man, “Eric,” left the following comment on the original Shrink4Men blog article, What Can I Do to Protect My Unborn Child from my BPD/NPD Ex-Girlfriend: I find myself in almost the exact same circumstances [...]

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Does your Partner Have your Back or Cause You to Watch your Back?

Written by Mellaril on April 27, 2012 - 32 Comments
Categories: Dating, Healthy Relationships, Marriage, Personality Disorders, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Unhealthy Relationships

Here’s he latest article from Shrink4Men Forum moderator, Mellaril. Good stuff! – Dr T When you think about your partner, do you feel she has your back or do you feel like you have to watch your back? In your relationship, who do you depend on and who depends on you? I’m a big fan [...]

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Man Woman Truth Radio Embed: Thinking with the Big Head Instead of the Little Head

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on April 19, 2012 - 0 Comments
Categories: Dating, Healing, Healthy Relationships, Marriage, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Shrink4Men Radio, Unhealthy Relationships

Hello Everyone, Apologies for posting this so late (taxes last week). As always, thanks to my co-host, Paul Elam of AVoiceforMen, our callers and the folks in the chat room. The music featured in this broadcast includes I Need a Lover by Johnny Cougar (Mellencamp), Little Head by John Hiatt and The Female of the [...]

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Radio: Thinking with the Big Head Instead of the Lower Brain

Written by Dr Tara J. Palmatier on April 8, 2012 - 21 Comments
Categories: Dating, Healthy Relationships, Marriage, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Shrink4Men Radio, Unhealthy Relationships

Please join us Monday, April 9, 2012 at 8pm EST when Paul Elam and I will discuss the merits of thinking with the big head instead of the “little head” and lower brain. Too many otherwise intelligent men get themselves into trouble by choosing romantic partners based solely upon physical attraction and/or sabotage potentially good [...]

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Putting Women on Pedestals: Don’t Do It

Written by Paul Elam on April 5, 2012 - 35 Comments
Categories: Dating, Healing, Healthy Relationships, Marriage, Relationship Advice, Relationships, Unhealthy Relationships

The following article by Paul Elam was read and discussed on the Get Her Off That Pedestal! broadcast of the Man Woman Truth radio program. Many years ago in a previous married life, I once participated in the now splendidly American ritual of taking a doomed marriage to therapy. Our stay was brief, like a [...]

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